I explained to Orson's little sister who's now two years old that tomorrow is one of her brother's birthday and that he would have been 5 years old. I told her that he died and we will be sad tomorrow because we miss him. I then asked her if she understood, this was our conversation:
2 year old: "you sad"
Me: "why am I sad?"
2 year old: "miss him"
Me: "yes"
2 year old: "you find him"
If only I could.
Happy birthday Orson. xx